I ended things with my husband - just now.
We were supposed to get together to talk about it tonight, but he said the discussion sounded ominous and wanted to do it then on the phone. I asked him again if he had made a decision on whether he wanted to be with me or not. He said that he still didn't know.

I explained how lonely I was. I couldn't take the waiting and being patient anymore. I needed to move on.

He asked if this move would make me less lonely and I said I am sure not in the short term, but in longer term, yes.

I also said that I thought it was really unfair putting me into this situation since I am the one that wanted the relationship to work out. He acknowledged that.

We both said I love you and then it was done.

Glad I did it, but still feeling pretty miserable. I just thought eventually he would come around. Oh, well.