I realised that I had posed some questions about G but haven't written about it since. If you are interested, I consulted my brother on the whole thing. And I tend to agree with what he said. G is actually more attached to this woman that he is dating than he had admitted and will most likely stay were for a long time.

I therefore am not really going to write to him any longer. I don't want to sound like becuase he is not interested in me, I am not responding. It is not that straightforward at all. I just think that I am not going to actually write to him. There is no real point. If he writes to me, I will respond but I am not going to pursue engagement with him.

Maybe if I lived in DC, it would be different but actually, it is better (for many reasons) that I don't.