Men are Bad?

I had an email this morning in my inbox from G. He had written to me that he was in Germany last week because his dad passed away and that he is flying back there on Tuesday to attend the funeral and sort things out.

Why would he write that to me? To me that is a personal thing, Your father's death. Why would you write that to a woman that you spent three days trekking with in October unless you felt a connection?? I think we can agree that is not really flirting.

He has a girlfriend.

Am I mad? Tell me something that will put it all in perspective.